Hi, I lost my cool, the truth is that there's so much in here that I agree with that I couldn't in good conscious keep the NEW story. I literally couldn't sleep - I had to delete it - I am all for kindness and tolerance, and I would actually love for English to have a proper gender-neutral (singular) pronoun. But everything else that I said in here is exactly what I mean and believe. So, I'm not so brave after all.