Thanks you for your comment Lucius. Maybe I went on a little rant, we all get annoyed at things sometimes. But my overall message is that I don't like being bullied into making me do things I refuse to do - even if it is purely out of the fact that I just don't feel like it. It has nothing to do with respect. My boss used to call me Sylv instead of Sylvia, even though I'm pretty sure I introduced myself as Sylvia when we first met. But I didn't make a big fuss out of it, even if I didn't really warm up to Sylv, and the fact that he called me that had nothing to do with whether he respected me or not.